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The editors assure us: The editors assure us: A Few Samplers: My favorite Maxim? It would be this: While laziness and timidity keep us to the path of duty, our virtue often gets all the honour. The sure way to be deceived is to think yourself more astute than other people. An Easy Escape: Most of the maxims employ rhetorical techniques that ambiguously and ironically leave room for each individual reader to dissociate himself or herself from the work’s judgements. The strategy is made
explicit in the ‘Note to the Reader’: Are you then quite wise? Don’t kid yourself. Most probably you are just uncouth, lacking refinement of thought to even think so deeply of your own nature. To wit: Uncouthness is sometimes enough to save you from being deceived by a clever man. A Better Guide to Reading: A better approach (one this reviewer would recommend) to reading these Maxims is to force
yourself into being the subject of every maxim no matter how hard it is on your pride. Accept the hard truths and heap them on yourselves. Reflect on possible actions that reflected on your hypocrisies, vanities and pride. Reflect on your self-deceit until you can accept easily that indeed you are prone to it. A Pithy Summation: In summation, all virtues are derided and exposed. Shown to comprise of a malignant core. Core: Self-flattery and Self-interest Indeed it will be difficult to persuade any man of good sense that they are being condemned for any other reasons than hidden self-interest, pride, and self-love. A Silver Lining: But our greatest virtue is the capacity for hypocrisy without which virtue would long have disappeared then? As earlier, one can also slip into an alternative escape hatch: if I can overcome normal pride and go so far as accept these maxims as true for myself even, then I can take pleasure in knowing that such is the extent of my wisdom. But, it is only pride - masquerading again. There is not even the need to explain this further. There is no escape once you embark on an examination of the basis of our
virtues and vices.
La Rochefoucauld made a permanent contribution to literature with his
Maximes: a collection of cutting aphorisms on the vanity of human nature. His perspective is cynical: seeing bad motives behind even the best actions. Or in his opening words: “Our virtues are most frequently but vices disguised.” And I do not think that one must be a defeated aristocrat in order to see the truth in many of his pronouncements. Here he is his describing me: I often found myself laughing at these aphorisms. So many of them ring true to my experience. And they represent a perspective too rarely expressed in daily life.
Selfless action is a deeply appealing concept; and many people wish fervently to believe in it. Yet it is an incontestable fact that most of what we do, even apparently altruistic actions, benefits ourselves in one way or another. Politicians fight to pass legislation to benefit their constituents, who then return the politician to power; businessmen give their employees a raise, who thus work harder and take less vacation; a friend picks me up from the airport, but he expects me to do
something for him in the future; a man returns a wallet he found on the street, is given a reward, and then is lauded on social media. And of course, altruism towards one’s family is the easiest thing to explain this way, since the family is just an extension of the self—psychologically and genetically. Some may find this way of thinking gloomy and unproductive. But I do think it is important to keep in mind our tendency to act out of self-interest; for, in my experience, it is those who
are most attached to the idea of selfless action who most often treat other people badly. It is a dangerous thing to think that virtue is on your side. And, personally, I find it a great relief to see myself as an ordinary animal rather than a moral machine. Self-knowledge requires knowledge of our less honorable motives; and pretending otherwise can lead to a kind of self-alienation: “We become so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that at last we are disguised to ourselves.” But
this dark view of human nature must be tempered in two respects. First, not even La Rochefoucauld thought that all actions were driven by vice. He thinks true virtue is rare, but that it does exist. Second, La Rouchefoucauld often points out that our vices prompt us to act more virtuously than virtue ever could: “The praise bestowed upon us is at least useful in rooting us in the practice of virtue.” Or, elsewhere: “Interest which is accused of all our misdeeds often should be praised for our
good deeds.” After all, the actions I described above are all virtuous actions. And this, for me, is the key insight of La Rochefoucauld’s cynicism: seeing our self-interest, not as inherently bad, but as a kind of neutral force which can be channeled for good or for evil. This insight alone could prevent a lot of needless guilt. More importantly, once we accept this premise, we can more easily shape our lives and societies. For we have discovered the secret of living together: finding
arrangement in which self-interest overlaps.
In this collection I believe I have found the first book that you cannot “finish” reading – I took about 2.5 months to go through the maxims and reflections, but I think that I won’t be putting this back on the shelf. It will
remain right next to my bed, where I will constantly refer to the marked passages, while also checking whether the unmarked passages begin to show some familiarity. The maxims are so poignant that they almost teeter on cliché. I was thinking of including a bunch of them that The maxims are so poignant that they almost teeter on cliché. I was thinking of including a bunch of them that I had found personally meaningful, but here is the thing: I don’t want to. I am scared. I don’t want to bare myself that much, seeing as how the maxims that you
gravitate toward say much more about you than the content of them or even La Rochefoucauld. Out of the first 400, I think I must have flagged about 150. In that 150, I think I see my life, my relationship with my family, my successful and failed romantic relationships, my career, and all of my shortcomings (and a few more of my shortcomings too). There were some that immediately stood out as having a certain recipient within my life – I was tempted to send it to him/her. I didn’t. There were
some that made me pause and think of my own flaws. Then I moved on. Then I came to a maxim about failing to acknowledge flaws even when it’s stripped bare and put in front of you in palatable portions. Then I moved on. You may have an experience like this when you read this. At some point, you will. I guarantee it. Pick this up. Start reading it. Don’t stop reading it.
Maximes Supprimeés (after the First Edition) "Comment prétendons-nous qu'un autre garder notre secret si nous ne pouvons le garder nous-memes?" (p99) Compare Ben Franklin's improvement: "C'est une ennuyeuse maladie q "Comment prétendons-nous qu'un autre garder notre secret si nous ne pouvons le garder nous-memes?"
(p99) Compare Ben Franklin's improvement: "C'est une ennuyeuse maladie que de conserver sa santé par un trop grand régime." Ahh, Diet, the sacred American program, is an illness. The very first suppressed maxim, two pages long, applies well to the Trumpster: "Self-esteem is self-love. "Il rend les hommes idolâtres d'eux-mêmes et les rend tyrans des autres si la
fortune leur en donne les moyens"(91). "It turns men into idolaters of themselves, and tyrants to others if they gain means to be." Nothing is so impetuous as the desires of self-love, "Rien n'est aussi impétueux que ses désirs." Funerals: "Les pompe des enterrements regarde plus la vanité des vivants que l'honneur des morts."(96) The pomp of funerals issues more from the vanity of the living than from honoring the dead. Non-Supprimeés "Le monde récompense plus souvent les apparences de mérite que le mérite même."(p59) "Tout le monde se plaint de sa mémoire, et personne ne se plaint de son jugement."(Max #89, p.53) "L'accent du pays où l'on est né demeure dans l'esprit et dans le coeur, comme dans le langage," reminds me of the regional accents of England and Italy, but especially of my mid-western wife, from Minnesota, Kansas, and Wisconsin whose former accent betrayed her friendliness to arrogant New Englanders. "Nous avons tous assez de force pour supporter les maux d'autrui." We all have
enough strength to Textes Complimentaire. "De la Retrait," on Retirement. Why old people don't make friends, not finding many true friends, but also thinking those who have died were truer than any new ones: "Ils deviennent insensibles d'amitié, non seulement parce que qu'ils n'en ont peut-être jamais trouvé de véritable, mais parce qui'ils ont vu mourir un grand nombre de leur amis qui n'avaient pas encore eu le temps ni les occasions de manquer à l'amitié et ils se persuadent aisément qu'ils auraient été plus
fidèles que ceux qui leur restent." (137)
Depressing, bitter, single-sentence maxims that opened my naive eyes and made me want to choose to be a better person than most. La Rouchefoucauld published these first in 1665 (France), but at least 80 percent are still applicable today. Fascinating observations.
The full title of the text is Reflections or Aphorisms and Moral
Maxims; and in centered text below the title are the words "Our virtues are usually only vices in disguise." The subtitle says as much as the title. These aphorisms are bitter as they are pithy. Perhaps not bitter -- say, rather, that La Rochefoucauld was not optimistic about human nature. Very few of these aphorisms speak of love, friendship, virtue, or humility with anything but skepticism. Given how nearly sublimely pessimistic L Given how nearly sublimely
pessimistic La Rochefoucauld's attitude is, I'm not sure what to think about the translator's claim that "it is one of the most deeply felt, most intensely lived texts in French literature." A selection: "We all have strength enough to endure the troubles of others." (19) "Our promises are made in proportion to our hopes, but kept in proportion to our fears." (38) "In order to succeed in the world people do their utmost to appear successful." (56) "Everyone
complains of his memory, but nobody of his judgement." (89) "Old people are fond of giving good advice; it consoles them for no longer being capable of setting a bad example." (93) "Hope may be a lying jade, but she does at any rate lead us to the end of our lives along a pleasant path." (168) "When our vices give us up we flatter ourselves that we are giving up them." (192) "Pride refuses to owe, self-love to pay." (228) "We often forgive those who bore us, but we
cannot forgive those who find us boring." (304) "We find few guilty of ingratitude while we are still in a position to help them." (306) "There are few sensible people, we find, except those who share our opinions." (347) "Our enemies are nearer the truth in their opinion of us than we are ourselves." (458) "The reason for so much outcry against maxims that lay bare the human heart is that people are afraid of having their own laid bare." (524)
Vanity causes me to pursue an accounting of the following exchange: [Moira]: Nathan, you get the La Rochefoucauld (sp) award for the day." [Moira]: Nathan, you get the La Rochefoucauld (sp) award for the day."
In short, the reader’s best policy is to start with the premiss that none of these maxims is directed specifically at him, and the he is the sole exception to them, even though they seem to be generally applicable. After that, I guarantee that he will be the first to subscribe to them, and that he will think them only too favourable
to the human heart. That is what I have to say about the work in general. In short, the reader’s best policy is to start with the premiss that none of these maxims is directed specifically at him, and the he is the sole exception to them, even though they seem to be generally applicable. After that, I guarantee that
he will be the first to subscribe to them, and that he will think them only too favourable to the human heart. That is what I have to say about the work in general.
[Self-Portrait by the Author moved to comments due to word limit.] We are more able than willing; often we imagine that things are impossible because we want to excuse ourselves in our own eyes. We are never as fortunate or unfortunate as we imagine. Truth does not do as much good in the world as the appearance of it does evil. No
disguise can long hide love where it exists, or simulate is where it does not exist. There is only one kind of love; but it has thousands of different imitations. Love, like fire, is sustained only by constant motion; and it ceases to exist when it ceases to hope or fear. True love is like visitations by ghosts: everyone talks about such things, but few people have seen them. Silence is the safest policy for someone who does not trust himself. Everyone
complains of his memory, and no one complains of his judgement. Everyone speaks well of his heart, and no one dares speak well of his mind. To draw attention to the fact that you never flirt is itself a form of flirtatiousness. The mind cannot act the role of the heart for long. It is as easy to deceive ourselves without noticing it, as it is hard to deceive others without their noticing it. We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves from other people, the in
the end we disguise ourselves from ourselves. If we resist our passions, it is more to their weakness than to our own strength. The only good copies are those that show us the absurdities of bad originals. We are sometimes as different from ourselves as we are from other people. We have little to say when vanity is not making us speak. A refusal of praise is a desire to be praised twice over. There are people with merits who leave a bad taste in the mouth,
and people with faults who are likeable. It is not enough to have great merits; you must also know how to employ them. The ability to make good use of average talents is an art that extorts respect, and often wins more reroute than real merit does. The world rewards appearances of merit more often than merit itself. Vices have a place in the composition of virtues, as poisons have a place in the composition of medicines. Prudence gathers them and tempers them, and puts them to good use against the ills of life. Only great men can have great faults. The desire to be seen as clever often prevents us from becoming so. The person who lives without folly is not as wise as he thinks he is. We often annoy other people when we think we could not possibly annoy them. Few things are impossible in themselves; we lack the diligence to make them succeed, rather than the means. There is no less eloquence in a person’s manner, eyes, and tone of voice, than there is in his choice of words. True eloquent consists of saying all that is needed and only what is needed. There are some people whose faults become them well, while other people, with all their good qualities, are lacking in charm. In any profession each person puts on a pretended look and outward appearance to make him seem what he wants people to think him. So we may say that the world is composed only of appearances. There are people who have the approval of society, though their only merits are the vices useful for the transactions of daily life. Women often think they are in love though they are not. The business of an intrigue, the excitement produced by a love affair, a natural predilection for the pleasure of being loved, and the difficulty of refusing, convince them that they are being passionate when they are merely being flirtatious. We are very far from knowing all our wishes. Moderation has been turned into a virtue to limit the ambition of great men, and to comfort average people for their lack of fortune and lack of merit. Sometimes in life there are events that you need to be a little foolish to handle. If there are men whose absurd side has never been revealed, it is because no one has looked for its properly. Why is it that we have enough memory to preserve even the slightest details of what has happened to us, but we do not have enough to remind us how many times we have told them to the same person? We can find ways to cure folly, but we can find none to correct waywardness. We sometimes think we hate flattery, but what we hate is merely the way it is done. Women do not know just what flirts they are. When we are in love, we often doubt what we most believe. Some faults, properly displayed, shine more brightly than virtue itself Of all our faults, the one that we tolerate most readily is laziness. We convince ourselves that it stems from all the calm virtues, and that far from completely destroying the other virtues, it merely suspends their activity. There is a kind of eminence that is not dependent on fortune. It is a certain manner that gives us distinction and seems to destine us for great things; it is a value that we imperceptibly grant to ourselves. By means of this quality we wrest deference from other men; and this is usually what sets us above them, more than birth, honours, or merit itself. What is least often found in love affairs is love. The most dangerous folly of old people who used to be attractive is to forget that they are no longer so. We do not please for long if our minds have only one way of looking at things. All our passions lead us to make mistakes, but love leads us to make the most absurd ones. No fools are as annoying as intelligent ones. Old age is a tyrant that forbids all the pleasures of youth on pain of death. We never desire passionately what we desire by reason alone. Through laziness and constancy the mind keeps to what it finds easy and attractive; this habit is constantly limiting our knowledge, and no one ever takes the trouble to extend his mind and lead it as far as it could go. Quarrels would not last long if the fault was only on one side. Of all our passions, laziness is the one least known to ourselves. It is the most intense and malignant of them all, though its violence is imperceptible and the harm it does is very well hidden. If we carefully consider its power, we shall see that in every situation it dominates our feelings, interests, and pleasures. It is a remora that is strong enough to stop the greatest ships; it is a doldrum that imperils important business more than any reef or even the fiercest storm. The inertia of laziness casts a secret spell over the soul, which suddenly halts our most zealous pursuits and our most stubbornly held resolutions. Finally, to give a true idea of this passion, it must be said that laziness is like a blissful state of the soul, which comforts it for all its losses, and which acts as a substitute for all good things. When you cannot find peace within yourself, it is useless to look for it elsewhere. How can we expect another person to keep our secret, if we cannot keep it ourselves? The world is full of pots calling kettles black. Man is so wretched that, while he shapes all of his conduct to gratify his passions, he keeps groaning incessantly under their tyranny. He can endure neither their violence, nor the violence that he would have to inflict on himself in order to rid himself of their yoke. He is frustrated not only by his vices, but also by the things that would cure them; and he cannot come to terms either with the discomfort of his afflictions or with the task or curing himself. We always prrefer ourselves to those with whom we intend to live, and we almost always make them conscious of this preference; that is what disturbs and destroys social intercourse. There is hardly any man who would want to be seen as he really is in every respect. There is a particular manner that suits each person’s appearance and talents; when we abandon it in order to adopt another, we are always the losers. We should try to discover the manner that come naturally to us and not depart from it, perfecting it as much as we can. Instead of being what they want to seem, they strive to seem what they are not. Each of them wants to be someone else, and not what he is. They are searching for a demeanour that is beyond them, a mind that is different from their own; they adopt manners and ways of behaving at random; they experiment with them, not realising that what suits some people does not suit everyone, that there are no general rules for manners and ways of behaving, and copies are never good. Yet two men can be similar in various respects without copying one another, if each of them is simply following his own nature; but hardly anyone follows it altogether—we love to copy; we often copy without realising it, and we neglect our own good qualities for alien ones, which usually do not suit us. Thousands of people with attractive qualities are disliked; thousands of less talented people are liked—because the former want to seem something that they are not, while the latter are exactly what they seem. In short, whatever advantages or disadvantages we may have received from nature, we are pleasing only in so far as we follow the manner, tones, feelings, and ways of behaving that suit our own condition and demeanour, and we are displeasing to the extent that we depart from them. When we have what we wish, we do not stop wishing. We grow accustomed to everything that we have; the same possessions do not retain the same value, and no longer affect our taste in the same way. We change imperceptibly, without noticing that we have changed. What we have acquired becomes part of ourselves; we would be deeply affected if we lost it, but we are no longer sensitive to the pleasure of retaining it. Our joy has lost its intensity; we seek it elsewhere, no longer in the things that we used to desire so much. This involuntary inconstancy is the result of time; do what we may, time subtracts from our love, as it does from our life—imperceptibly tarnishing each day some of its youth and gaiety, and destroying its true charms. There is an attractive, lively first bloom in love, which passes away imperceptibly, like that of fruit. That is no one’s fault; it is merely time’s fault. In the early stages, the other person’s appearance is attractive; our feelings are akin; we seek what is pleasant and agreeable; we want to please, because we are pleased, and we try to show that we are capable of setting the highest possible value on what we love. Later, however, we no longer feel what we thought we would always feel; the fire goes out; the charm of novelty is tarnished; beauty, which plays such a great part in love, either decreases or no longer makes the same impression; the name of love remains, but neither the people nor the feelings are still the same; we keep observing our obligations, our of honour, out of habit, and in order to avoid being too aware of our own change. What couples would have fallen in love, if they had seen each other at first as people see each other with the passage of years? And yet what couples could separate, if they could again see each other as they did at first? ...more
We are more able than willing; often we imagine that things are impossible because we want to excuse ourselves in our own eyes. There is more pride than kindness* in our reprimands to people who are at fault;
and we reprove them not so much to correct them as to convince them that we ourselves are free from such wrongdoing. What men have called friendship is merely social contact, consider ation for one another’s interests, and exchange of favours; in fact, it is simply a transaction in w There is more
pride than kindness* in our reprimands to people who are at fault; and we reprove them not so much to correct them as to convince them that we ourselves are free from such wrongdoing. What men have called friendship is merely social contact, consider ation for one another’s interests, and exchange of favours; in fact, it is simply a transaction in which selflove always expects to gain something. Everyone complains of his memory, and no one complains of his
judgement. We acknowledge our faults so that our sincerity may repair the dam age they do us in other people’s eyes. Perfect valour consists of doing without witnesses what you would be capable of doing in front of the whole world. We confess small faults only to convince people that we have no greater ones. Confidence contributes more to conversation than intelligence does. The wish to be pitied or admired is often the main
reason that makes us confide in people. When we really are unhappy, we often comfort ourselves by taking a certain pleasure in appearing to be unhappy. A refusal of praise is a desire to be praised twice over. We usually bestow praise only to receive it.
Wow. This is seeing the glass all the way empty (& maybe smashed). Lilian Tomlin said something like, no matter how cynical you get, it's
never enough to keep up. If this jives with your view of humanity, read Rochefoucauld. The maxims are short and pithy and misanthropic: Self-love is subtler than the subtlest man of the world. The moderation of happy people comes from the tranquility that good fortune gives to their disposition. What is called generosity is most often just the vanity of giving, whi Lilian Tomlin said something like, no matter how cynical you get, it's never enough to keep up. If this jives with your view of humanity, read Rochefoucauld. The maxims are short and pithy and misanthropic: Self-love is subtler than the subtlest man of the world. The moderation of happy people comes from the tranquility that good fortune gives to their disposition. What is called generosity is most often just the vanity of giving, which we like more than
what we give. We make a mistake if we believe that only the violent passions like ambition and love can subdue the others. Laziness, for all her languor, is nevertheless often mistress: she permeates every aim and action in life and imperceptibly eats away and destroys passions and virtues alike. Few men are sufficiently discerning to appreciate all the evil they do. Nothing is so contagious as example, and our every really good or bad action inspires a similar one. We imitate
good deeds through emulation and evil ones because of the evil of our nature which, having been held in check by shame, is now set free by example. I could go on all night...
Some of the maxims that caught my eye: "Philosophy triumphs easily over past evils and future evils; but present evils triumph over it." "We have more strength than will; and it is often merely for an
excuse we say things are impossible." Maxim 30 "Those who apply themselves too closely to little things often become incapable of great things." "We have not enough strength to follow all our reason." Maxim 42 "Happiness is in the taste, and not in the things themselves; we are happy fro "Philosophy triumphs easily over past evils and future evils; but present evils triumph
over it." "We have more strength than will; and it is often merely for an excuse we say things are impossible." Maxim 30 "Those who apply themselves too closely to little things often become incapable of great things." "We have not enough strength to follow all our reason." Maxim 42 "Happiness is in the taste, and not in the things themselves; we are happy from possessing what we like, not from possessing what others like." Maxim 48 "There
are no accidents so unfortunate from which skilled men will not draw some advantage, nor so fortunate that foolish men will not turn them to their hurt. " Maxim 59 "Old men delight in giving good advice as a consolation for the fact that they can no longer set bad examples." Maxim 93 "It is far easier to be wise for others than to be so for oneself." Maxim 132 "No man is clever enough to know all the evil he does." Maxim 269 "We should not judge of a man's merit by his
great abilities, but by the use he makes of them." Maxim 437 "Few things are needed to make a wise man happy; nothing can make a fool content; that is why most men are miserable." Maxim LXXX
My French literature textbook included ten of these maxims, and I was intrigued to see more of these timeless tidbits. Most people in my class thought Rochefoucauld displayed a very pessimistic viewpoint on life here, but I thought it was fair and neutral. Maybe I'm just super pessimistic too and didn't realize it? My French literature textbook included ten of these maxims, and I was intrigued to see more of these timeless tidbits. Most people in my class thought Rochefoucauld displayed a very pessimistic viewpoint on life here, but I thought it was fair and neutral. Maybe I'm just super pessimistic too and didn't realize it? ...more
"There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations."
*I've realized I'm writing myself notes more than reviews at times. I'm logging this stuff for my kids mostly who
are 6 and 2 at the time of this writing, (Hello M. and O. If I'm dead now it doesn't mean I didn't just see what you did and you should feel horrible about your behavior the moment you are done washing your hands - now go watch 12 Chaplins and get a good night's sleep), I hope I can at least convey some central themes in the book at hand that will justify their presence on this site. *I've realized I'm writing myself notes more than reviews at times.
I'm logging this stuff for my kids mostly who are 6 and 2 at the time of this writing, (Hello M. and O. If I'm dead now it doesn't mean I didn't just see what you did and you should feel horrible about your behavior the moment you are done washing your hands - now go watch 12 Chaplins and get a good night's sleep), I hope I can at least convey some central themes in the book at hand that will justify their presence on this site. Why not give this to every college student? These essential and
concise observations on the nature on man and his shortcomings primarily are concise and useful. This knowledge is available in other places (among those e.g: Rabelais, Montaigne, Stendhal and as far back as Marcus Aurelius) but they appear in their distilled essence here. Something of a French Gilgamesh many years later - I've read that this is well known material among the majority of subsequent French writers - easy to understand why even at a glance. R. himself posits that there's two
motivating factors in gaining knowledge; one, to increase wisdom that might help us live better and the other, to know things that others don't know. This is essentially the mode of all the entries, to expose but somehow not humiliate humans being human. What results in this type of cynicism isn't the pedagogical guidance of Montaigne nor the bawdy insults of Panurge but something that instead works like a father - freed from mom for a few days putting your worm on your hook for you - but making
you cast it out. With mom gone and a few beers in the bag there's no reason to not let fly with a bit of sugared venom - grandeur through a measured reduction in the pressure of restraint. Is it possible to be this cynical yet not bitter or off-putting? I'd argue for a third operating factor that motivates this agnostic epistophiliac at least; the fear of missing out on something. This isn't really some crippling self-loathing - anyone knows the more you know the more you know there is to
know...I'm fine with that...but I don't want to miss the essentials. Instead of self-deprecation this factor instead results in very visceral sense of joy when you feel those leaks close. This is very much one of those books. In it we find the keys to things like Zweig's Beware of Pity. Intended or not - this is a Maxim stretched out in narrative form. Life and Fate would also qualify as a Maxi-Maxim (ooofff) in that the goal is to define what really is great in man when all is said and done.
Book after book kept coming to mind as I slowly made my way from these, on average, I'd guess two or three sentence concepts. There's fermentable fruit here for those willing to pick it up, smash it down, blow it full of bubbles , stir in some live culture and wait. Best probably not to read this like other books, leave it in your pocket - a few bits at a time and go as slow as possible. Remember as much detail as you can and repeat as needed for pain. The opening short essays that
operate as self-portraiture and longer form prose are essential. If it's the skill of the translator or R. himself might be a point of distinction beyond my current comprehension but I hope my choice to shelve it near Sir Thomas Browne is deemed appropriate by the man that moves both at the same time one day. I'm dependent on images to provide a comparably elegant evisceration of flesh - let's go with Francis Bacon. I would have loved to know this man and would prefer him to hate me back because
the salve of the words which he might have communicated such sentiments would quickly heal any damage that his derogatory opinion might have inflicted. otherwise. Each Maxim is probably worthy of an essay and upon re-reads I will continue reactions here.
La Rochefoucauld’s maxims are all things that good maxims should be: pithy, shrewd, redolent of experience, and memorable. A sampling: “Few things are impossible in themselves, it is not so much the means we lack as perseverance to make them succeed.” “We are far indeed from knowing all we want.” “It is easier to stifle a first desire than to satisfy all the ensuing ones.” “We are so used to disguising ourselves from others that we end up disguising ourselves from ourselves.” “Nature provides th La Rochefoucauld’s maxims are all things that good maxims should be: pithy, shrewd, redolent of experience, and memorable. A sampling: “Few things are impossible in themselves, it is not so much the means we lack as perseverance to make them succeed.” “We are far indeed from knowing all we want.” “It is easier to stifle a first desire than to satisfy all the ensuing ones.” “We are so used to disguising ourselves from others that we end up disguising ourselves from ourselves.” “Nature provides the merit, chance calls it into play.” “To try to be wise all on one’s own is sheer folly.” “Many people want to be pious but few are prepared to be humble.” “Youth is one long intoxication: it is reason in a fever.” “It is not enough to have great qualities; one must know how to manage them.” Some drift to the cynical but are no less useful for that. Cynicism is a reflexive reaction to any thought, action, or idea but a) it can come in handy when you want to skewer a bad idea; and b) even the cynical ones bring value in consideration of how they came to be held. “The weak cannot be sincere.” “Some people are thought well of in society whose only good points are the vices useful in society.” “We only blame ourselves in order to be praised.”La Rochefoucauld, a 17th century French nobleman, is a sharp observer of human nature and gifted with the aphorist’s talents for concision and memorable phrasings. Mr. Tancock must be an able translator because the maxims work in English almost as well as they must work in French. La Rochefoucauld's Maxims make splendid reading and a splendid philosophical reference. ...more
"Our virtues are usually only vices in disguise." So begins this collection of hundreds of short aphorisms about human nature, most of them 3 sentences or less, which touch on love, war, business,
courage, money, death, perception, politics, freindship, vanity, morality, laziness, and hypocrisy. The writer, the Duc De La Rochefoucauld, had a philosophy which linked all human action to people's "self-love". Cynical, but not in a mean way. La Rochefoucauld was very good at seeing the hidden selfish So begins this collection of hundreds of short aphorisms about human nature, most of
them 3 sentences or less, which touch on love, war, business, courage, money, death, perception, politics, freindship, vanity, morality, laziness, and hypocrisy. The writer, the Duc De La Rochefoucauld, had a philosophy which linked all human action to people's "self-love". Cynical, but not in a mean way. La Rochefoucauld was very good at seeing the hidden selfishness in almost any thought, action or belief. And if you read this book, you may start to see it too. Very interesting and
highly recommended.
Some are quite clever, some are quite obvious, some are quite insightful, most are worth reading.
Cada frase del libro es oro. “We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others, that in the end, we become disguised to ourselves.”
"We would rather speak ill of ourselves than not speak of ourselves at all." "We would rather speak ill of ourselves than not speak of ourselves at all." ...more
It's difficult to narrow down my thoughts on this book to a review that is not verbose. I want to say to begin with that reading "Portrait de M. R. D. fait par lui-même" (Portrait of Monsieur R----d, by Himself) was
delightful. I know I was smiling the whole time whenever I was reading it. To me, that last part was less autobiographical and more personal. I think it is absolutely wonderful that they included that at the end of the book. (That is, aside from the Maxims of Doubtful Authenticity.) It's difficult to narrow down my thoughts on this book to a review that is not verbose. I want to say to begin with that reading "Portrait de M. R. D. fait par
lui-même" (Portrait of Monsieur R----d, by Himself) was delightful. I know I was smiling the whole time whenever I was reading it. To me, that last part was less autobiographical and more personal. I think it is absolutely wonderful that they included that at the end of the book. (That is, aside from the Maxims of Doubtful Authenticity.) I don't think I have read something that someone has written about how they look and are that is more interesting. I think that reading that made the end a nice
ending. I want to say that this is my favorite book of all time, but whenever I review that thought I can't help but think of how many books I have not read and how naïve of me it is to think that, because I know that not only are there so many more books that I haven't read, but I know that there will be books similar to this one that I will read. I can say with absolute certainty that this is one of my favorite books of all time, though. I don't think I would say that this is simply
"another book that I have read." The reason why I say that is that this book had wonderful thoughts to offer me. I know that throughout reading the entire book I was continually surprised at how pertinent the things that I was reading were to my life. There were some things that I did not think of before, and those things which I had not thought of offered me a valuable perspective. I think that whenever I am able to read an author's work and it offers me another perspective on life which I find
to be valuable, I appreciate it much. I don't have a favorite part of the book. I value the book as a whole and I wouldn't prefer one part over the other because I can't help but think I overlooked some things. Whenever I think that I have overlooked something, especially something important, I feel compelled to look back and see what it is I overlooked. I think that I will read this book again. I haven't read any book twice, but this is a book which I could see myself reading again
because it is so valuable to me now, and I think it won't diminish in value.
This was an impulse buy based on my love for Oxford World's Classics paperbacks. I hadn't heard of the author before, but after a few quick peeks around the 'net, I found it interesting. I'm glad to have read the book and it's
neat that it's a dual-language edition, with the original French on the left and a new English translation on the right. It lets me try to practice my French and also enjoy the translation process. As for the work itself, there were several maxims I really liked. I list som As for the work itself, there were several maxims I really liked. I list some below. I also enjoyed several of his Miscellaneous Reflections (Réflexions diverses), first completely translated in this volume. His reflections on Conversation (RD #4)
was the best, an early example of the art of listening and interacting with people rather than pontificating at them and waiting to speak. “We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves from other people, that in the end we disguise ourselves from ourselves” (#119). “We often do good so that we can do evil with impunity” (#121). “The glory of great men should always
be measured against the means they used to acquire it” (#157). “When our hatred is too intense, it puts us on a lower level than those we hate” (#338). “Average minds usually condemn whatever is beyond their grasp” (#375). “Most friends make us lose our taste for friendship, and most pious people make us lose our taste for piety” (#427). “We try to pride ourselves on the faults that we do not want to correct” (#442). “Our enemies’ judgements of us are nearer the
truth than our own” (#458). “When you cannot find peace within yourself, it is useless to look for it elsewhere” (withdrawn after 2nd ed. #49)
La Rochefoucald is a very interesting person who has lead a very interesting life, in addition to his being clearly very intelligent. Such factors naturally lead to wise, if not at least fascinating
writings. I at first heard about him and his short book of maxims and thought it would be a light summer read but it took me 3 times as much effort as I thought it would to read these 500 one sentence maxims, they weren't very complex and so I wondered why it was so hard for me to do so and I came to La Rochefoucald is a very interesting person who has lead a very interesting life, in addition to his being clearly very intelligent. Such factors
naturally lead to wise, if not at least fascinating writings. I at first heard about him and his short book of maxims and thought it would be a light summer read but it took me 3 times as much effort as I thought it would to read these 500 one sentence maxims, they weren't very complex and so I wondered why it was so hard for me to do so and I came to the conclusion that it's because his style of writing and thinking is very Age of Reason-y, very alexander pope, very devoid of humble human
confusion, loss, chaos and emotion. And to me, that clever matter of factly kind of writing is very unattractive because it's cold and distant and far from, at least, my particular humanity, for that reason, the book bored me. However, it would be unfair to dismiss the wonderful harsh and realistic maxims offered, often about love and human vanity, topics that are very difficult and brutal to tackle with utmost honesty. Some of my favourite maxims include:
Re-read. French courtier and spiritual precursor to -- among others -- the inverted moral perspectives and reversals worked through in Nietzsche, much of Freud and Bierce's Dictionary... Though this compact book is primarily comprised of aphorisms amenable to the Twitter format, my favorite entry is a bit lengthier: 630 630 *Forgot to mention that it's pretty dern sexist at times.
Our virtues are most frequently but vices in disguise.- Francois de La Rochefoucauld In the early 17th century, a French writer earned great acclaim for publishing a book of maxims that influenced French society centuries after he wrote. Important thinkers like Friedrich Nietzsche admired him, and literary critics bandied his name about in comparison and contrast to their own contemporaries. Around the same time Blaise Pascal was writing what he intended to be a defense of the Christian faith, t Our virtues are most frequently but vices in disguise.- Francois de La Rochefoucauld In the early 17th century, a French writer earned great acclaim for publishing a book of maxims that influenced French society centuries after he wrote. Important thinkers like Friedrich Nietzsche admired him, and literary critics bandied his name about in comparison and contrast to their own contemporaries. Around the same time Blaise Pascal was writing what he intended to be a defense of the Christian faith, the Duke de Rochefoucald was publishing maxims that were so popular they were pirated across Europe and passed off as the work of others. But while Pascals writings, which later became the masterpiece Pensees, have earned lasting fame, Rochefoucald has largely been forgotten. Still, Rochefoucalds writings are a poignant reflection of the French society in which he lived. The maxims indicate a man fully aware of the political intrigue surrounding Paris, and the conflict that posed with attempting to live a moral life. ...more
Fantastically precise observations of human nature. But the end result is gloom and depression. If you read just a few pages of this work at one sitting; you will be okay. If you read 1/2 of it at one fell swoop, you will probably need prescription medication. Whatever you do, do not read the whole thing at once--you might never recover. This is grim, savage, biting stuff.
A book who exposes the hypocrisy of mankind in an unashamed way, and in a very very easy way to read. If you want to add 20 years of life experience to you current age, this is the book to read. It is, however, interesting how a book written almost 400 years ago can still summarize so well the behavior of mankind still today.
have decided that the gnomic is my least favorite genre. perhaps there is something valuable here, but am finding it trite in its presentation and unsustained in its intellectual rigor. (am not a fan of nietzsche's contributions to the genre, either.) have decided that the gnomic is my least favorite genre. perhaps there is something valuable here, but am finding it trite in its presentation and unsustained in its intellectual rigor. (am not a fan of nietzsche's contributions to the genre, either.) ...more
This is one of the best books I ever read. Librarian Note: There is more than one author in the Goodreads database with this name. This profile may contain books from multiple authors of this name. Other authors publishing under this name are: François de La Rochefoucauld François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillac (French: [fʁɑ̃swa d(ə) la ʁɔʃfuko]; 15 September 1613 – 17 March 1680) was a noted French author of maxims and mem Other authors publishing under this name are: François de La Rochefoucauld François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillac (French: [fʁɑ̃swa d(ə) la ʁɔʃfuko]; 15 September 1613 – 17 March 1680) was a noted French author of
maxims and memoirs. It is said that his world-view was clear-eyed and urbane, and that he neither condemned human conduct nor sentimentally celebrated it. Born in Paris on the Rue des Petits Champs, at a time when the royal court was vacillating between aiding the nobility and threatening it, he was considered an exemplar of the accomplished 17th-century nobleman. Until 1650, he bore the title of Prince de Marcillac. Related ArticlesNeed another excuse to treat yourself to a new book this week? We've got you covered with the buzziest new releases of the day. To create our... “Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and fans the bonfire.” — 2638 likes “If we had no faults we should not take so much pleasure in noting those of others.” — 1729 likes More quotes…Welcome back. Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account. |